You argued, she got upset and left, but you now want her back. Relationships can reach end points due to all sorts of reasons, from infidelity to change in career to distance. But it’s all possible to get back together and start things afresh. Even if you broke up with her an over a year ago or she’s seeing someone else, there’s always a way you can get back that girl who captured your heart.
- Find out what went wrong
The first thing you need to do to get her back is to take some time and think things out. Try to find what exactly went wrong (may be something you or her did) and why she left! To make things easier for you, you may want to try finding answers to certain questions such as: What was she saying before the breakup? Did you have frequent arguments? Or did she find you in a compromising situation with your or her female friend?
Believe it or not, no girl will allow you back in her life if you still have no idea why you broke up. By taking the time to find out the possible reasons for your being apart, you’ll find it easier to determine the best way to approach reconciliation.
- Reach out to her
Once you have thought things out and are sure you want you’re ex girlfriend back, the next thing to do is to contact her. You can do this over the phone or in person, but make sure you keep the message both light & playful. Sending her a message such as “We need to talk” or “I want us to get back together” may not be a good idea as it’s too heavy and may invoke the wrong “emotions”. make yourself aware of the hero instinct in men and aim to show her the easy, relaxed version of you that she knew when you were starting out.
- Apologize to her
It doesn’t matter whether she broke up with you or you broke up with her, but an apology is key to getting her back and working things out. By apologising, you show a high level of maturity because you’re swallowing your ego. Moreover, it shows that you do care enough for her to accept you were wrong. There are so many ways you can give an apology but you should try to keep it simple. Girls really love flowers so consider sending her a fresh bouquet of beautiful flowers. You can also write her a letter or meet her in person in a public place, or just a place where she’s comfortable with.